I wouldn’t call it being a douche, because it doesn’t seem like he derives any pleasure from it. I just think it’s because he’s non-confrontational and because he knows some kind of emotional reaction will result from it, he chooses to ignore it. The thing is, as much as you try to do these things because you think you will have a controlled response, you really don’t know how the other person will react. People also don’t like being ignored or taken for granted. I would rather someone tell me flat out, because I know what I’m dealing with. I don’t like for the other person to be cagey. If you want me to leave you alone, the best way to let me know is to tell me. If I have to figure it out by basically being ignored, it’s not going to be pretty. I find that to be much more cruel than the bitter truth, and I’ve been on both sides of the fence. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 7 Thumb down 1 Reply Paula says: May 23, 2011 at 9:21 am When you’re [your] honesty has an agenda, it doesn’t really count. <p><a href="https://single-ladies.lcvm.nl">Why Crying is Good for the Soul</a></p> <p><a href="https://single-ladies.linksnaar.nl">What Was He Thinking?</a></p> <p><a href="https://single-ladies.psas.nl">If a Woman Was Caught Cheating, Would Her Man Stand By Her?</a></p> <p><a href="https://single-ladies.officetime.nl">3 Reasons Men Hate the Word Monogamy!</a></p> <p><a href="https://single-ladies.linkmolen.nl">Friends With Benefits? No Way!</a></p> <p><a href="https://single-ladies.linkupdate.nl">How to Feel Comfortable With Your Body When You're Dating</a></p> <p><a href="https://single-ladies.time2surf.nl">Do Women Give Too Much To Men in Relationships?</a></p> <p><a href="https://single-ladies.cloudtools.nl">Are You Having an Emotional Affair?</a></p>