And yes, it is strange that he takes the “none of your business” approach to the finance conversation. And what the hell is up with no family time? What, are you just supposed to marry him one day and then…”SURPRISE, here’s everything you need to know about me!” No. I don’t think so. At what point is he supposed to get real with her? He should be excited to share his life (and I’m mainly talking about family here) with her. The fact that he is not makes it seem like it’s not meant to be. I just don’t think she is asking for too much. At all. Well-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 12 Thumb down 0 Reply chuckrock says: June 10, 2011 at 12:53 pm If you are willing to leave someone because of some arbitrary time-line or whether some boxes are checked on time, then you don’t really love them. In order to truly love someone you have to make sacrifices for them and tbh waiting for them to be ready and having conversations are not much sacrifice at all. I will side with Anne on this part though: he should be able to discuss his finances with her…at least somewhat. To me that is the only real red flag. https://bit.ly/4oyNypV https://bit.ly/4ovSj3z https://bit.ly/43jK9D6 https://bit.ly/47BeK1u https://bit.ly/4qSomwf https://bit.ly/43nLnNF https://bit.ly/43jK6qU https://bit.ly/3LwEOlH https://bit.ly/4hU9h9h https://bit.ly/4hTReAd https://bit.ly/3LxqqJY https://bit.ly/43ZF8jd https://bit.ly/47yajV8